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Very often I hear that people are busy and have no free time. Nowadays it's everywhere, we're dependant on our work, relatives, tasks and technologies. We forget about ourselves. To my mind it's very difficult to follow your interests in a real life, unless you have a work that you really like ;) In other cases, our everyday routine work devours all our interests and desires.

Yesterday I've found some pieces of advice that can help us to save our time. The author of the article notes that we dont have free time because we dont have a strategy for it. And this is true, because when I try to plan my time I really get some free minutes left.

Here's the strategy he offers:

1. Stop being a slave to technology.

Means that we should have the courage to switch off our cell phones, messengers, mailings, etc. We have become slaves of different technological gadgets as the author mentions. It's not necessary to be on hold all the time. Have a break.

2. Stop working when it is time to stop.

Work will never cease no matter how much time and energy you put into it. If you're tired there will be no result no matter how long you'll be working over yout projects. If you have a creative profession, this rule should be the main one for you. The reason is that we always need new impressions and knowledge to produce good work. To get them we need some free time to do what we want.

3. Delegate, delegate, delegate.

Outsource those tasks that you dont like executing. Delegate those chores that you are not proficient in to somebody else. Free up that extra time. Use it to focus on what you do well and most importantly, enjoy doing. Even if you're a chief manager, there's no need to do everything yourself. Just divide the work between other people and control the process. It'll save much time.

4. Make free time for a goal. Plan for it.

All the above tips will be crippled if you dont plan for your free time. It will fail if having free time doesnt become a goal of yours. You have to plan for your free time. Make it a goal to boost your free time. It's so darn easy to plan for free time. Just write it down! List down your daily responsibilities. Make time for free time. Take action. Here's a template for planning a free time. May be you'll be able to customize it for your own use:

A 1/2-Page Daily Action Template for Best Results and More Free Time

6-8 am: [Free time, morning routine] Meditate, Tai Chi, breakfast, read

8-9 am: [Nitty-gritties, get it over and done with fast] Check & reply emails, check blog traffic stats, AdSense earnings

9 am-12 noon: [Play time! Focus on 2-3 tasks you?─≥re really good at] Write 1 article, blog marketing, network (will continue through the afternoon)

12-1pm: [Free time] Hit the gym, lunch

1-4 pm: [Continue playing] Core work

4-5 pm: [Nitty-gritties] Check and reply emails

5-6 pm: [Free time] Yoga

6-11 pm: [Free time] Samantha?─≥s birthday party, read


These are the steps that can really help. In conclusion, I would like to dwell on technology. Internet can be a useful thing to spend free time. We can get self-educated through Internet sites, meet people from all over the world to get acquainted with different cultures and just make new friends, and get the latest news. Everything depends on your demands and the talent to sort out the necessary information out of a huge amount of unnecessary sites.

Source: Internet Extract
Post By: Easton Olliviere

Two West Indians were drinking in a bar and complaining about their boss that he was a real pain in the butt always giving them a hard time. The next day they met at bar again and the Bajan began boasting to the Trini, "boy ah cuss out de boss man real good, and when ah done, ah ask 'e fuh a raise and he gih it to me."
Trini looked at Bajan in suprise and asked "you mean he did'n fire you?". So the next day Trini went in to work and began to cuss up the boss who looked at him and promptly fired him on the spot.
That afternoon when Trini met Bajan in the bar again, he told him what happened earlier. Bajan explained "Trini muh friend, when I cuss de bossman, I cuss he in muh mind."

A Jamaican guy walks into a whore house in New York and asks, "You have a girl work here from Jamaica name Arlene?"
"Yes," answers the madam. "Go on up to Room 6." So the fellow went up to Room 6 and knocked on the door. When the woman answered, he asked "Yu name Arlene, don't it?"
"Yeah man, a me dat," replied the woman.
"Well, a have a couple Hundred dollas...." he proudly announced.
With that, the hooker interrupted him, grabbed the money, opened the door wide and hauled him by the shirt into the room. After a little rest from the vigorous sex, the fellow got up to leave. "Will you be here tomorrow?" he asked.
"Yeah Man," Arlene said, "Me will deh yah."
The next night, the fellow comes back and gives up $200. When they were done, he's sitting on the side of the bed, and asks. "Will you be here tomorrow night?"
"Honey," replied the hooker, "Mi deh yah every night fi you".
Night comes and the fellow was back in action. When they were done, they are both sitting on the edge of the bed.
"Tell me sumthin'," Arlene said, "what part of Jamaica yu from?"
"Portmore," replied the fellow with a satisfied grin.
"True ? Me have one sister live inna Portmore yuh know!" the hooker exclaimed.
"I know dat," the fellow replied, "She gimme six hundred dollas fi gi yu!"

I miss u so bad that it drives me insane, my feelings for you i can
contain. When we are together its like the whole place gets peaceful, to you
i will always be faithful. I want us to be together today me
forever, until its time for the both of us to go, go to a place where no one but us
know, and live as free a the birds in the sky, on u my whole life
rely. You bring such great happiness to me, you make me feel the way i wanna
be. I' m so overthrown with your love, u and i are such beauty from above.

I do believe the lord above have created you for me to love, he has
choosen me out of all the rest because he knew i would love the best, i
had a heart and it was true and now its gone from me to you, so take care
of it as i have done because you have two(2) and i have none.

I can love u but unless u say I do.
I can only give u a kiss if we do have one mind to do.
I can tell U what to do but I can force U to do it.
I can show U my love if only U do show up that U love,
Right lovers dose not found the right people when they are all thinking
of whom to go in for.
Disapprover of once love to U dose not means U should not look for the
rib of Ur rib,
dear thing money can't buy.
but cheap things are expensive to get.
I can give u the drug to get U heal but can't

Police officer pulls over a speeding car. The officer says, "I clocked you at 80 mph, sir."
The driver says, "Gee, officer, I had it on cruise control at 65, perhaps your radar needs calibrating."
Not looking up from her afghan, his wife says sweetly, "Now don't be silly dear, you know very well this car doesn't have cruise control."

As the officer makes out the ticket, the driver looks over at his wife and growls, "Can't you keep your mouth shut for once?"
The wife smiles demurely and says "You should be thankful your radar detector went off when it did".
As the officer makes out a second ticket for the illegal radar detector, the man glowers at his wife and says through clenched teeth, "Dammit woman, shut your mouth! NOW!"

The officer frowns and says, "And, I notice you're not wearing your seat belt, sir, that's an automatic $75 fine."
The driver says, "Yeah, well you see officer, I had it on, but took it off when you pulled me over to get my license out of my back pocket."
And the wife says, "Now dear, you know very well that you didn't have your seat belt on, you never wear your seat belt when you're driving the Corvette."

And, as the officer makes out the third ticket the driver turns to his wife and barks, "WHY DON'T YOU SHUT THE HELL UP"

And the officer looks over at the woman and says, "Does your husband always talk to you this way, Ma'am?"
"Oh heavens no, officer, only when he's been drinking..."

Although her husband had been slipping in and out of a coma for several months, his wife stayed by his bedside every single day.

When he finally came to, he motioned for her to come closer.

As she sat on the bed beside him he said, "Yuh know yuh deh wid mi through all the bad times. When mi went bankrupt and lost mi business, yuh stood by mi side. When mi get shot, yuh deh by mi side. When wi lost the house, yuh was dere. When mi car crash an mi bruk up, yuh was dere. When mi health started to fail, yuh was dere, and when a start to get worse, yuh was dere ... right by mi side ... every time sumpn' bad happen to me yuh is right dere. Yuh know something? Yuh know sey it look like yuh a crosses!!!?"

HER DIARY

Sunday night I thought he was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment. Conversation wasn't flowing so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk, he agreed but he kept quiet and aloof. I asked him what was wrong - he said, "Nothing." I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset.

He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry. On the way home I told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior; I don't know why he didn't say, "I love you, too."

When we got home I felt as if I had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched TV; he seemed distant and vacant. Finally I decided to go to bed.

About 10 minutes later he came to bed and to my surprise he responded to my caress and we made love, but I still felt that his thoughts were somewhere else. I decided that I could not take it anymore, so I decided to confront him with the situation but he had fallen asleep. I started crying and cried until I also fell asleep. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.



HIS DIARY

Today Lara made 191, he missed the double century by just nine runs! But at least I got laid.

At the 1997 Women's Conference the first speaker from England stood up and said, "At last years conference we spoke about being more assertive with our husbands. Well after the conference I went home and told my husband that I would no longer cook for him and that he would have to do it himself. After the first day I saw nothing. After the second day I saw nothing. But after the third day I saw that he had cooked a wonderful roast lamb." The crowd cheered.

The second speaker from America stood up and said, "After last years conference I went home and told my husband that I would no longer do his laundry and that he would have to do it himself. After the first day I saw nothing, after the second day I saw nothing, but on the third day I saw that he had done not only his laundry but mine as well." The crowd cheered.

The third speaker from Jamaica stood up and said, "Hafter las ears conference me go ome and tell mi usband dat mi naah do no more cooking, cleaning, nar shapping, and dat im affi do it imself. Hafter de firs day mi nuh si nutting, hafta de secon day mi nuh si nutting needa. Den pon the tird day, as de swelling go down likkle, mi coulda si outta mi lef eye."